To Draw Closer To God. No matter who we are and where we are in our lives, we all need to put in the time and effort to make sure that we are daily drawing closer to God. This is a far different process than showing up for church or fulfilling callings. It is more than family prayer, more than kindness toward each other and more than trying daily to be a good person. These can all be part of the puzzle, but the real journey is to invest in our ability to develop eternal relationships that bring us joy. These relationships are with sisters, parents, friends, spouses, children. At the end of this life, we will only take our hearts that love others with us. We will have knowledge, and yet, if that knowledge did not get applied as genuine love and concern for others and a close relationship with God and Christ, it will not serve us.
Peace comes from God. I am learning that a life lived in peace is worth the price of daily effort. I will still have problems, but, the peace that comes through knowing that I am not alone and that God has sent angels in my life, is the necessary difference between a life well lived and a life lived.
I read this book a few years ago and took it with me on a trip this fall. I was deeply impacted by it when I read it this time and wanted to share it and open up a conversation around the concepts within the book. The book truly pointed me toward a deeper relationship with God and a centered and peaceful outlook on my life and my role as a mother and a wife. I appreciated the urging to honestly look at myself and find ways to continually move toward a more authentic self.
The last time I read it, I found that it was a message of motherhood,marriage, service and kindness. I am certain that while the words have not changed in the book, I will get a far different message reading it this time. As you read the table of contents, you will find that there are no chapter headings that align exactly with the messages that I gained last time, the message that you recieve will be different from what I receive while we read. It is the message and the insights that you have that I would like you to share as you read and blog. You are in a unique place in your life and have much to offer each of us in terms of your perspective in your life today.
When I left on my trip, I was conflicted about what to do next in my life. We were planning on moving to Florida so that I could teach at the university and Alan would find a job in his field once we got there. We moved on that path and started to feel uneasy about the path. While I was in Virginia Beach, things changed for me as I read the book, journaled and was able to spend time thinking, pondering and praying. I came away from that experience with a sure and solid conviction as to the path that we were going to take. I was much more able to let things unfold in the way that they were supposed to. Alan was given opportunities that we wouldn't have been able to see as opportunities before. I know that my change of heart and peace that the change in our path was the right change made a signficant difference. Reading the book opened my mind to thoughts and answers that I had been too busy to hear or trust.
I journaled while I read last time and would encourage each of you to journal as well. I found that I was much more open to new ideas and personal guidance given through the spirit when I was journaling. I would re-read the thoughts entered into my journal later in the day or to Alan and I began to realize that what I was reading was made much more personal through journaling. Oftentimes, I read the thoughts that came from the reading and compared it with the actual reading and found that the message that I got out of the passage was not always what was on the page, but what was intended for me that day.
So today is the day...
We are officially beginning our book club on blogger. I have given out some of the books and am sending more this week. I am inviting all of the sisters and their adult daughters and daughters-in-law. We video-taped our introductory conversation at our last sister's lunch and, when our technological skills (collectively between Alan and I) mount up to figure out how to post it, we will do so (or if Seth can figure out how to do it for us since he has learned more blogging tricks than I know at this point...)
The rules:
Read three chapters a week. Comment on Wednesday and on Sunday. Any comment or thought is appropriate-- don't edit yourself, just share your thoughts. The point is to share with each other and grow together. Melissa wisely requested a reading schedule:
Schedule:
March 24- comment on chapters 1-3
March 31 " " " 4-6
conference weekend-- no reading assignment
April 7- " " " 7-10
April 14 comment on chapters 11-13
April 21- " " " 14-15
She also requested a grading process-- this will be left for a conversation between you and God :) (Gail suggested that if we see each other in the celestial kingdom, we will know who completed the assignments...)
Thanks for taking this journey together. I am certain we will all be more peaceful and able to see God in our lives as a result.
Love you,
Karen
Sunday, February 7, 2010
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I know, it's not the 24th but I just wanted you to know how appreciative I am that you put this together so that we have an opportunity to grow and learn from each other! Thank you!!!
ReplyDeleteLove, Mum
What a great idea--I have this book and have read it, but it will be good to read it again and journal my thoughts and ideas. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteI love this book! As a teacher, I've always prayed for guidance in what to teach but I've always prayed for the class as well that they will be touched by the Spirit because I learn more from them as they contribute their experiences of life. I feel I am the discussion leader. When I was teaching Church History the scripture in D&C 59:4 really made me ponder, it talks about "commandments not a few". When we live the commandments, we gain a deeper understanding and realize that there's another level that we should live which becomes another commandment to us as we gain knowledge and insight. Elder Christofferson said, "Some see only sacrifice and limitations in obedience to the commandments of the new and everlasting covenant, but those who live the experience- who give themselves freely and unreservedly to the covenant life - find greater liberty and fulfillment. When we truly understand, we seek more commandments, not fewer. Each new law or commandment we learn and live is like one more rung or step on a ladder that allows us to climb higher and higher. Truly the gospel life is a good life."
ReplyDeleteLearning to listen and then acting on that is what truly brings happiness in this life. But we need to be truly listening, truly seeking and truly humble to hear what our Heavenly Father is trying to impart to us through others.